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Brand New Toolkits Available for Download!

Download the Parent and Educators Toolkits in book-form! Our toolkits have information on a variety of issues surrounding eating disorders that are invaluable for parents and educators.


Download the full toolkit that’s right for you in book-form.

Educators Toolkit in book-form.

Parent Toolkit in book-form.
Revised and updated March 2009
by Joel Yager, MD and James Lock, MD
of NEDA Clinical and Scientific Advisory Committee


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NEDA Parent Toolkit


Parent Toolkit: 
Revised and updated March, 2009 by Joel Yager, MD and James Lock, MD of NEDA Clinical and Scientific Advisory Committee


The NEDA Parent Toolkit is a resource for anyone wanting to understand more about eating disorders and how to support a family member or friend who’s affected. This toolkit was developed with you in mind, in response to requests for a simple, easy-to-use way to get answers to questions and concerns. Each toolkit developed for NEDA will be updated as new research and information becomes available. There are two ways to read and print this information:

1. Book-form.

2. Print-on-demand, by topic.


Basic information for parents
  1. Glossary
  2. Common myths about eating disorders
  3. Eating disorder signs, symptoms and behaviors
  4. How to be supportive
  5. Ways to start a discussion with a loved one who might have an eating disorder
  6. First steps to getting help
  7. Advice from other parents: What to expect and how to respond
  8. Why parent-school communications may be difficult
  9. Useful online resources for eating disorders
Treatment information
  1. Treatments available for eating disorders
  2. The evidence on what treatment works
  3. How to find a suitable treatment setting
  4. Treatment settings and levels of care
  5. Questions to ask the care team at a facility
  6. Questions to ask when interviewing a therapist
  7. Questions parents may want to ask treatment providers privately
  8. Online databases to find suitable treatment
  9. How to take care of yourself while caring for a loved one with an eating disorder
  10. Confidentiality issues
Insurance Issues
  1. Navigating and understanding insurance issues
  2. COBRA rights checklist
  3. Sample letters to use with insurance companies
  4. How to manage an appeals process