National Eating Disorders Association

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hermione3
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I am so upset right now my roomate is moving out the one who is my coworker. it has nothing to do with me all my other roomtae who's dad owns the house.but my roomate went into my roomates room when we were both not home.it looked like someone slept in her bed...i feel bad i got her into the house i never had a problem like that with my friend...now my other friend is moving out and i am sad and hurt and don't know how to feel its nothing i did but really it sucks...i am so tired too and not feeling well still...labs on Thursday if they are fine i will think i am fine...and should just restrict...

iwanttolive
hermione3

Hi. I am so sorry about the roommate situation. I don't completely understand all that you said, except that you are affected negatively by it. Just a reminder, restricting is not going to change the circumstances. It will only hurt you. You are already hurting. I hope and pray you make the choice that will bring healing to your body.

Take care, iwanttolive
I hope that didn't sound insensitive, believe me, I know how difficult it can be to not act on behaviors. But it is a choice. I only hope you make a good choice. I care, and that is why I am saying this. Please don't think I am being mean. I am not. I only want to encourage you.
iwanttolive

hermione3
Thanks it's difficult I am

Thanks it's difficult I am sad by the situation basically my roommate went in my other roommates room when she was not home and now she doesn't trust I get it but I am sad she is my friend both roommates actually are friends so it puts me in a weird spot and I know why but can't tell my other friend ugh it just sucks,.. I know restricting won't help I am just upset...